To The Unloved Daughter
Your mother did not love you as she should have, because of her narcissistic personality disorder.
This is not your fault, but it is your burden.
There is so much that you should have heard from your mother: advice, support, compliments, validation, encouragement and so much more.
These Letters To The Unloved Daughter, also called Notes From Your Inner Mother are your chance to ‘hear’ them all now. They are what a loving mother would say.
They’re what you need and deserve to hear.
These notes are designed to read as if they’re from your own inner mother, the part of you who is your own wise mother to yourself. This wisdom and love is accessible to you through your quietness and attention, and these notes are from that place of healing and kindness.
Here’s what DONMs have to say about these Notes.
(Shared with permission of course)
“A caress to my soul”
“Reading it is like a soft loving caress to my soul. “
“I read it every day”
“I read passages from your book everyday and my pages are turned down and marked in Orange.“
Ellen, Louisville, Kentucky
“I’ve read it twice”
” I’ve read it twice now and it was so powerful – I loved it. “
Ellie, Bournemouth, UK
“Favorite pages marked!”
I love this book so much and I already have many favorite pages marked! I love it that each page has an affirmation! Thank you so much for such a comforting, sweet, thought provoking, and “feel- better” book!
“More than I ever thought it would be”
” The book is even more than I ever thought it would be! I consider the “notes” to be daily affirmations and I pretend that a lovely, sweet woman (who I imagine is my mother) is saying these nice things to me! I have only read up to #20, but I will say: it feels so good to believe that someone could have said those things to me! Thank you SO much!! “
“I appreciate [these ntoes] more than words can say”
‘I read the notes every day and I appreciate them more than words can say. It has helped me to understand what a real healthy mother and daughter relationship should be.’
LC , Ontario
“Food for the soul”
The note series has been uplifting and heartbreaking at the same time, but has led me to a better inner dialogue.
“My Daily Prayer”
Your notes are like my daily prayer. Each one for that day has a direction pertaining directly to me.
"Put a smile on my face"
“[These notes] are most helpful and put a smile on my face. Thank you so much.”
Missi, VA, USA
"Just what I need to keep going"
“These notes are just what I need to keep going some days. “
"They have healed and encouraged me"
Oh PLEASE PLEASE CONTINUE THESE NOTES! I COULD TELL YOU A MILLION REASON WHY THESE ARE SO IMPORTANT TO ME.
They have healed encouraged and perfectly timed to my life!
Thank you for doing them Please keep them going!
“I look forward to them so much. They are uplifting and kind of make me feel special.” MLH from Orchard Park NY.
"Learning how to fix my inner voice"
” The Notes are working. I am learning how to fix my inner voice. “
Sandra L. White Lake, Michigan US
"Taught me to speak caringly to myself"
” Your notes have taught me to speak caringly to myself” Margaret S, Aust.
"Remind me to love myself"
They remind me to love myself each time I receive them. Sue, Michigan
"Helping me feel I belong in the world"
“These notes are instrumental in helping me feel like I belong in the world and am meant to take up space.”
J.B. – New York, New York
"The sunshine in my day"
I can’t begin to tell you how much these notes have cheered me up, been the sunshine in my day and made me feel loved.
They are so warm and healing and inspiring. [These words] are healing broken hearts and broken people.
Bless you a million times.
"A good feeling about myself"
“Notes From Your Inner Mother give me hope and a good feeling about myself. Something our mothers couldn’t give us.”
Katja, Arnhem, Netherlands.