Congratulations for finding your way here. This means that you have already identified that something is/was wrong with the way your mother treated you, and have shown the courage and determination to search for answers. This is HUGE.

It means that you have already taken a big step on the journey of healing from being a daughter of a narcissistic mother.

You may have come here via search terms which did not involve any of the words like ‘daughters of narcissistic mothers’ or ‘narcissistic personality disorder’ or ‘NPD’.In that case, it means that you don’t yet know exactly why your mother is the way she is; you just know that your mother-daughter relationship is very flawed, and no matter how long and hard you try, you just can’t fix it.

This website might well have the answer as to why this is. Your mother might well be narcissistic. I invite you to explore the site to see if that is possible.

This site is NOT about wallowing in the pain and hurt of being a daughter of a narcissistic mother, so do not fear that you’ll be on that path. I say this because you might well have been told that any consideration of your circumstances was wallowing and playing victim.

As you shall see, this is a standard way to try to deflect you. But for now, know that it is none of that. Not at all. (Although it is for sure about acknowledging it after so many years of being invalidated. This site is instead all about identifying the truth whatever that may be, and then moving on, healing, and claiming your own self as the wonderful vibrant woman you really are.