_menuCloseDelay=500;
_menuOpenDelay=150;
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_subOffsetLeft=2;
buildafterload="true";


with(menuStyle=new mm_style()){
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borderstyle="solid";
borderwidth="2";
fontfamily="Verdana, Tahoma, Arial";
fontsize="8pt";
fontstyle="normal";
fontweight="bold";
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padding="10";
pagecolor="Black";
separatorcolor="DimGray";
separatorsize="1";
subimage="images/black_7x7.gif";
subimagepadding="3";
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with(submenuStyle=new mm_style()){
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borderstyle="solid";
borderwidth="2";
fontfamily="Verdana, Tahoma, Arial";
fontsize="8pt";
fontstyle="bold";
headerbgcolor="#ffffff";
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offcolor="#000000";
onbgcolor="#EEEECC";
onbold="bold";
oncolor="Black";
padding="4";
subimage="images/black_7x7.gif";
subimagepadding="5";
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with(milonic=new menuname("Main Menu")){
position="relative";
style=menuStyle;
alwaysvisible="1";
aI("showmenu=Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Narcissism DefinitionLEFT_MENU;text=Narcissistic Personality Disorder;target=;url=narcissistic-personality-disorder.html;");
aI("showmenu=Mothers with NPD/Engulfing MotherLEFT_MENU;text=Mothers with NPD;target=;url=mothers-with-narcissistic-personality-disorder.html;");
aI("showmenu=Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers/DONM JourneyLEFT_MENU;text=Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers;target=;url=daughters-of-narcissistic-mothers.html;");
aI("text=Your Recovery Journey;target=;url=your-recovery-journey.html;");
aI("text=Narcissistic Mother Dictionary;target=;url=narcissistic-mother-dictionary.html;");
}

with(milonic=new menuname("Narcissistic Personality Disorder/Narcissism DefinitionLEFT_MENU")){
style=submenuStyle;
aI("text=Narcissism Definition;target=;url=narcissism-definition.html;");
aI("text=Narcissism Traits;target=;url=narcissism-traits.html;");
aI("text=Characteristics of NPD;target=;url=characteristics-of-narcissistic-mothers.html;");
aI("text=Narcissism Spectrum;target=;url=narcissism-spectrum.html;");
aI("text=Cause of NPD;target=;url=cause-of-narcissistic-personality-disorder.html;");
aI("text=Types of Narcissism;target=;url=types-of-narcissism.html;");
aI("text=Treating Narcissism;target=;url=treating-narcissism.html;");
aI("text=Narcissistic Supply;target=;url=narcissistic-supply.html;");
aI("text=Narcissistic Rage;target=;url=narcissistic-rage.html;");
aI("text=How To Recognize a Narcissist;target=;url=how-to-recognize-a-narcissist-diagnosing-narcissism.html;");
aI("text=How To Deal With A Narcissist;target=;url=how-to-deal-with-a-narcissist.html;");
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with(milonic=new menuname("Mothers with NPD/Engulfing MotherLEFT_MENU")){
style=submenuStyle;
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aI("text=Ignoring Mother;target=;url=ignoring-mother.html;");
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aI("text=Invalidation;target=;url=invalidation.html;");
aI("text=Strings Attached;target=;url=strings-attached.html;");
aI("text=Gaslighting;target=;url=gaslighting.html;");
aI("text=Forms Of Abuse;target=;url=forms-of-abuse.html;");
aI("text=Golden Child Scapegoat;target=;url=golden-child-scapegoat.html;");
aI("text=Narcissistic Mothers are Bullies;target=;url=narcissistic-mothers-are-bullies.html;");
aI("text=Emotional Vampires;target=;url=emotional-vampires.html;");
aI("text=Your Success and Happy Days;target=;url=your-success-and-happy-days.html;");
aI("text=Parentification;target=;url=parentification.html;");
aI("text=Infantalisation;target=;url=infantalisation.html;");
aI("text=Triangulation;target=;url=triangulation.html;");
aI("text=Narcissistic Mothers' Vanity;target=;url=narcissistic-mothers-vanity.html;");
aI("text=Strange Sexuality;target=;url=narcissistic-mothers-strange-sexuality.html;");
aI("text=Enabling Father;target=;url=enabling-father.html;");
aI("text=Narcissistic Mothers and Society;target=;url=narcissistic-mothers-and-society.html;");
}

with(milonic=new menuname("Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers/DONM JourneyLEFT_MENU")){
style=submenuStyle;
aI("text=DONM Journey;target=;url=donm-journey.html;");
aI("text=DONMs & Relationships;target=;url=http://daughtersofnarcissisticmothers.com/better-relationships.html;");
aI("text=DONMs & Ill-Health;target=;url=donms-and-ill-health.html;");
aI("text=Negative Self-Talk;target=;url=negative-self-talk.html;");
aI("text=Never Good Enough;target=;url=never-good-enough.html;");
aI("text=Feeling Guilt;target=;url=feeling-guilt.html;");
aI("text=Low Contact;target=;url=low-contact.html;");
aI("showmenu=Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers/No Contact/No Contact 101LEFT_MENU;text=No Contact;target=;url=no-contact.html;");
aI("text=Self-Care Deficit;target=;url=self-care-deficit.html;");
aI("text=DONM Manifesto;target=;url=donm-manifesto.html;");
aI("text=DONMs As Mothers;target=;url=you-as-mother.html;");
}

with(milonic=new menuname("Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers/No Contact/No Contact 101LEFT_MENU")){
style=submenuStyle;
aI("text=No Contact 101;target=;url=no-contact-101.html;");
aI("text=Light's No Contact Essay;target=;url=light's-no-contact-essay.html;");
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 drawMenus();