Narcissistic Mothers' Strange Sexuality
Many Narcissistic Mothers have strange attitudes towards sex. This isn't part of the official
criteria, but the experience of so many of my forum members with this issue leads me to know it can be part of the
mix. Maybe it's about lack of boundaries which is a totally narcissistic trait. Or maybe (and probably
more likely) there is more going on than just Narcissistic Personality Disorder, such as Histronic Personality
Disorder. Whatever it is, it's horrible.
They might be over-sexual and act inappropriately flirty, maybe with their daughters'
boyfriends or other inappropriate people. (Flirting with their daughters' boyfriends also invades her boundaries, making sure the daughters know their place in the grand scheme
of things.)
Or they might blur boundaries again by giving their daughters too much information re their own sex
lives.
This might even blur the boundaries between inappropriate behaviour and sexual abuse. In healthy
relationships mothers are physically intimate in many ways with their daughters anyway (such as for hygiene
reasons), so it's easy for inappropriate behaviour to slip in in unhealthy relationships.
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They might refuse to tell their daughters about sex and be over-prudish. They might
respond really negatively when the daughter gets her first period - showing disgust maybe, or
otherwise making it a bad thing.
I am lucky that my own mother did not fall into any of these extremes. In fairness
I think she dealt with sexual issues with me very maturely and very appropriately.
But I know that these issues do cause big
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