If it doesn’t work …

As you’re tapping and following the video or the script, you should find that your score is decreasing. It could happen quickly, or slowly, but it should happen. But sometimes, it just doesn’t shift at all.  

Here are some causes of why the EFT doesn’t work, and the cure. Try these in the order presented. 

Dehydration 

If you’re dehydrated it can stop EFT working. Drink a good glass of water, and try again. You may well find that the EFT starts working really well once you’ve done that. If not, go onto the next step, below. 

Emphasis

When you're following the videos or reading out the script, don't just recite the text. Say it with meaning, speak it loudly - even shout it, if that's possible without annoying others. There is something very freeing and powerful about shouting or speaking loudly about your issues, and it adds to the power of EFT. And emphasise the power words. So instead of just saying, "I do deserve to heal", for example, stress the word 'do': "I do deserve to heal".

Concentration

If you’re not conentrating on the tapping, it doesn't work as well. Try to think about what you're saying rather than just repeating it by rote. And make sure you have no other distractions, so don't do it while you're watching television or playing computer games or any other distraction.

Try The 9-Gamut

This strange-sounding routine is great for shifting things when they get stuck and won't move. Looks funny, feels silly to do, really works:

Resistance to getting over the issue 

Sometimes you will have resistance to getting over this issue. It could be that it doesn’t feel safe to get over it, or you don’t feel you deserve to, or other such reasons. If this is happening to you, then you’ll block your own healing. If this is the problem, step away from the issue and work on the resistance to healing it. It’s as if your goal is to saw wood, but you discover the saw is blunt. The solution is to temporarily leave the wood and go and sharpen the saw. That’s what we’re doing here.

Here's a video and accompanying e-book about tapping away the resistance to healing. Tap it at least five times, with concentration and emphasis, and then go back to tapping on the main issue. You should find that it starts shifting then. If it still doesn’t, try the next step.

 You can download this video by clicking here.

And click on the image of the the book for the transcript:

Electro-magnetic interference 

Try moving away from computers and your mobile phone (cellphone) and other similar equipment. (I know the video is on your computer! But if EFT isn’t working for you, this is worth trying. Print out the PDF and take that away from electronics and try that.

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I am committed to your success. If you try all the above and EFT doesn’t work for you, then I invite you to contact me on danu@daughtersofnarcissisticmothers.com and let me know. I’ll see what I can do to make work for you, and if it still doesn’t work I’ll issue you a refund. The other option is, of course, to request a refund straight away.

Just send an e-mail to refund@daughtersofnarcissisticmothers.com, with ‘Refund Request’ in the subject line, and a copy of your PayPal transaction ID in the body of the mail, and I’ll send it straight over. It’s done manually, so please allow up to 24 hours for this.